My Valentine

I already gave my husband his Valentine's gift. I know it's not February 14th. But we don't celebrate the holiday the same way others do. We enjoy having a reason to go on a date, and it does make procuring a sitter less guilt inducing.

So last night I set the most romantic scene imaginable.....I pulled out a kitchen chair, told him to close his eyes, and climbed onto the counter to  grab his gifts. (the top of the kitchen cabinets is a great hiding spot) My sweet hubby didn't mind that I didn't wrap anything, and he really did enjoy his gifts. And it felt GOOD to give him something. I think it's easy to forget that we need to spoil our man sometimes too. Woman deserve it too, don't get me wrong. But I know in my relationship I tend to always be the one on the receiving end. Yes I do a lot more little things  like letters, texts, and special meals. But he always does the big things. He surprises me with birthday presents and anniversary gifts. He listens to me rant and rave about everything and anything. He provides for his family in a way so many don't these days. I can count on him. I never doubt that. I've never had to and I think I take that for granted sometimes. The old adage "you never know what you have until it's gone" is cheesy, but spot on. I'm thankful I haven't had to go without to notice just how blessed I am.

Hubby and baby #4

 God gave me an amazing husband, a strong friend, and a dedicated Father to our children.

I'm going to remember the way I feel today as I look at what I have. I'm going to make a point to remind him who he is to us not just on special occasions but when he's having a bad day. I'll forget, because I'm human and busy. Maybe this will serve as a reminder to us both, I love you, I'm thankful for you, you are an amazing man.